A common myth: once a child turns 12, they can pick who they live with. Not true. In Texas, a child can express a preference—but the judge still makes the final call.
What the law actually says:
- Children 12 and up can have their opinions heard in chambers.
- Judges consider maturity, not just age.
- Other factors still outweigh preference (school, safety, consistency).
What this means for fathers:
- Don’t rely on promises from your child about “choosing you.”
- Focus on showing why your home environment is the best fit.
Got questions about how your child’s opinion factors in? Let’s talk.