Family court isn’t random. But for many fathers, it can feel like a coin flip—especially when the default assumption leans toward the mother. Here’s the truth: courts care about stability, involvement, and what’s provable.

What actually matters:

  • Who handles school drop-offs, homework, doctor visits?
  • Are you already spending time with your child consistently?
  • Can you show the court a real routine, not just promises?

How to stand out:

  • Keep a parenting journal or calendar.
  • Save texts, emails, and photos of involvement.
  • Be proactive, not reactive, about school and medical decisions.

Bottom line: Judges want to see facts, not emotion. You win custody with preparation, not just passion.

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